Friday, March 10, 2017

How Do I Get My 6-Year Old to Practice 30 Minutes a Day?

You just signed up your kid for piano lessons, and he's doing great with Twinkle Twinkle and Hot Cross Buns, but his teacher is demanding 20 - 30 minutes per day of practice. You're lucky you get 5 minutes out of your kid. Each of his songs takes about 20 seconds to play and you really don't want to hear that nursery rhyme 500 times. So how on earth do you get a beginner to put in 20-30 minutes a day? Here's what I do with my boys, and it's working great. They started their lessons with me a few weeks ago and are (to our delight) -- advancing rapidly. We know they are enjoying it because they are ASKING FOR MORE SONGS AND HARDER SONGS!  It's all about developing daily HABITS and WITHHOLDING THE GOOD STUFF until piano practice is complete. No, I don't put them on a 30-minute timer and lock them in the room. No, I don't hound them or hover over them constantly. So what is my magic formula to get the wee beginner at the piano 20 minutes every day?

  1. Break up the half-hour.  Break it up into 5-minutes here, 5-minutes there, etc.  
  2. Withhold screen time/ iPad, etc.  Whatever their favorite leisure activity is -- withhold it until piano practice is complete.  (I add homework and chores as additional screen-time pre-requisites).  I know one family who forbids screen time during the week and the kids must earn weekend screen time through music practice and homework during the week.  All the children play 2 musical instruments.  There is no TV in the house, only access to movies on a DVD player.  It's not my exact system, but it works great for them!
  3. Practice the same time/s every day and stick to it.  My kids have to practice 5 minutes before school, 5-10 minutes after school,  and about 10 minutes before bed (when I try to jam with them if I'm home by their bedtime).  By enforcing these three times every day, they are getting to the point that they just go to the piano after they get dressed in the morning.  
  4. Add a piano app as part of their practice time.  I use Piano Maestro to help my kids learn to read music.  It's phenomenal and they enjoy keeping time and finding the letter names on the keyboard.  
  5. Have them perform their songs regularly for grandparents/ friends/ relatives on Skype, phone, or Facetime.  This is a great way to get extra practice out of them!  They LOVE to show off their skills to others, and the compliments from family members are a huge encouragement to them.
Hope that helps you get your 20 - 30 minutes a day!

For more information on piano lessons or piano entertainment in Loudoun County, VA, contact me at jennifer@piano2go.com or call 571-439-0136.  My website is www.piano2go.com.