How Do I Get My 6-Year Old to Practice 30 Minutes a Day?

You just signed up your kid for piano lessons, and he's doing great with Twinkle Twinkle and Hot Cross Buns, but his teacher is demanding 20 - 30 minutes per day of practice. You're lucky you get 5 minutes out of your kid. Each of his songs takes about 20 seconds to play and you really don't want to hear that nursery rhyme 500 times. So how on earth do you get a beginner to put in 20-30 minutes a day? Here's what I do with my boys, and it's working great. They started their lessons with me a few weeks ago and are (to our delight) -- advancing rapidly. We know they are enjoying it because they are ASKING FOR MORE SONGS AND HARDER SONGS!  It's all about developing daily HABITS and WITHHOLDING THE GOOD STUFF until piano practice is complete. No, I don't put them on a 30-minute timer and lock them in the room. No, I don't hound them or hover over them constantly. So what is my magic formula to get the wee beginner at the piano 20 minutes every day?

1. Break up the half-hour.  Break it up into 5-minutes here, 5-minutes there, etc.  
2. Withhold screen time/ iPad, etc.  Whatever their favorite leisure activity is -- withhold it until piano practice is complete.  (I add homework and chores as additional screen-time pre-requisites).  I know one family who forbids screen time during the week and the kids must earn weekend screen time through music practice and homework during the week.  All the children play 2 musical instruments.  There is no TV in the house, only access to movies on a DVD player.  It's not my exact system, but it works great for them!
3. Practice the same time/s every day and stick to it.  My kids have to practice 5 minutes before school, 5-10 minutes after school,  and about 10 minutes before bed (when I try to jam with them if I'm home by their bedtime).  By enforcing these three times every day, they are getting to the point that they just go to the piano after they get dressed in the morning.  
4. Add a piano app as part of their practice time.  I use Piano Maestro to help my kids learn to read music.  It's phenomenal and they enjoy keeping time and finding the letter names on the keyboard.  
5. Have them perform their songs regularly for grandparents/ friends/ relatives on Skype, phone, or Facetime.  This is a great way to get extra practice out of them!  They LOVE to show off their skills to others, and the compliments from family members are a huge encouragement to them.

Hope that helps you get your 20 - 30 minutes a day!

For more information on piano lessons or piano entertainment in Loudoun County, VA, contact me at jennifer@piano2go.com or call 571-439-0136.  My website is www.piano2go.com.

"Train is Going Down The Track": Teacher-Student Activity for the Young Beginner (4 - 6)

This is my youngest son (5 in October) at his first piano lesson with mom (me) last night. I made up this repetitive chant/rap for beginners (because all 5-year-olds love trains). It's just a little 12-bar blues, boogie-style in C. Little did I know that this would become a top request at my youngest students' lessons (go figure). The idea is to train them to FEEL THE BEAT, and eventually...fall in line with it musically. [NOTE: NO PRIOR PREPARATION HERE AND INITIAL SLOPPINESS ON STUDENT'S PART IS WELCOME...IT'S PART OF THE PROCESS]. He had never heard this before, but you'll notice he's trying to mouth the words and learn the chanting part already. He's also already trying to match my rhythm with the "Choo-Choo-Choo" (they all do...I coach them with my body language). He also matches my shimmy (an unsophisticated word for tremolo) at the end. 

First, I marked a C and G on the piano with hot pink post-it flags. There is no right or wrong answer on his part, and a little chaos in the beginning is ok. I just mark the two keys he needs to play, and he can do whatever he wants with those two keys. The first week (like this) sounds sloppy, but after a few weeks of doing this, kids start to fall in line with the beat and sound more orderly with their rhythm. They'll create their own rhythmic patterns as unique as one's fingerprint with that C and G. They enjoy it as an end-of-lesson activity because there's no corrective action on my part -- NO WRONG ANSWERS -- just fun improvising and being themselves. Please don't gag when I sing the "choo-choos" as I've been sick. Most importantly, it is a fun music-making experience for little guys that makes them want to do more. Can't wait to see what he sounds like after a week of practice with mom.

I will post sheet music later, but here is the basic progression:

• (Intro Material:  F, F#, G7)
• ||:  4 Bars of C7
• 2 Bars of F7
• 2 Bars C7
• 1 Bar of G7
• 1 Bar of F7
• 2 Bars of C7
• (Intro Material for Round 2:  F, F#, G7)  :||

The Importance of Feeling and Finding the Beat Through Listening

At age 4 or 5, just finding the beat can be elusive.  Dance teachers and music teachers experience this first-hand.  We call it "marching to the beat of your own drum."  Students speed up, then slow down.  They're not in sync with the music they're hearing.  It's frustrating!  All music/dance teachers need for students to march to the beat of the music they hear (in dancing), or march to the pulse the group is following (in music).  As soon as possible, students need to have an internal metronome to keep themselves steady when the metronome or ensemble/ director is not present.  

To arrive at this INTERNAL STEADY BEAT, one must become a good listener.  One of the best ways to arrive at this is by letting the musician or dancer improvise within certain parameters.   My parameters here were "just play these two keys - C and G, marked with the pink Post-It flags."  Make up whatever you want, but just these two keys.  Listen, feel the music, and stay with the beat.  It is important for the teacher to be perfectly steady and have faith that eventually, the student will fall in line with the beat.  His beats won't line up with yours on the first few tries with this, unless he is super-gifted in that regard.  But have faith....it happens with more repetitions, and it's interesting to see what rhythmic patterns they come up with!